Question: How can I get in touch with you?? I'm Japanese and I'd love to go on a pick-up session with you!!!

If you live in Kansai I'd be cool to meet and go pick up chicks in Osaka. We will hit on chicks and have a ton of fun. Just post on my formspring with your email address. If you live outside of Kansai, I won't be able to do it. I just got back from a very intense pick-up session that lasted 5 days and nights in Tokyo. I won't be going back anytime soon, although there are a few cute girls there who I met that could make me change my mind....
I might write about that next time.

Question: what are some cool places to check out? eg, shopping, sight seeing, ect

This question came in a while ago but I haven't got around to answering it until now.

In Kansai, I like shopping in Namba, Shinsaibashi centergai and America Mura in Shinsaibashi and Sannomiya in Kobe. There is one Kansai shop called 'cook jeans' whose clothes I really love but I just hate their craftsmanship. Every piece of clothing I get from them has had a problem with the stitching so threads unthread and buttons fall off really quickly. They describe their clothes as 'Tough, wild and cool'. I think it suits me well.

In Kanto, I like Shibuya. I was in 109 mens the other day and I got some boots. A lot of their stuff is geared towards host kei and gyaru-o so I'm not really into a lot of it anymore, getting a little more mature with my clothing style, but there were a few shops that I would drop more cash in. Harajuku used to be cool a few years ago, but not anymore for the same reasons.

Other shops I like; Zara is pretty cool at times. Uniqlo is cheap and has simple T's that are nothing too fancy but be sure to walk down the street and see someone else wearing the same thing. JEANSMATE! Open 24 hours MOFO! Get it at 3pm or 3am- good for simple tops. Try to check out the underground shopping in all major shopping areas too. There are often clearance places that have a variety of goods at good prices. I also prefer to get shoes from clothing shops rather than shoe shops, however it depends on the item; I got some boots from ABC mart a month or two ago. Usually I hate ABC mart. For suits and work stuff I like 'comme ca store' or 'perfect suits factory'. If I'm stretched for cash I go to 'Aoyama'. A lot of young guys might think spending money on something you will wear to work is a waste, I say; 'never underestimate the appeal of a man in a well fitting suit knocking off work and loosening his tie over a cold drink.'
In other words, you don't only work in work clothes.

As for sightseeing; I like all sightseeing. I'll go anywhere and everywhere, but nothing stands out above what any other travel guide could detail more clearly.

Freak out

I got back from Tokyo last night and met my GF. She was more eager to see me than ever before (why? I was only gone 6 days). We spent a great time having sex, then she went home. Today we had plans to meet and do sale shopping at 12pm. I got a really cute message from her around 11.30am with a lot of cute decomail icons on it. But there was some other dude's name on it. A guy called Kai. WHO THE FUCK IS KAI?!

This is where not being me becomes hard to understand, but being me is very easy to understand. I think I lose readers in the process.

I just looked at the mail. Not angry, but surprised. We have a rule; one night stands are OK, but anything else is a 'no no'. Seeing her put all this effort into a mail to appeal to some other dude made me really disappointed. I don't care about the other dude, I care about her putting in all that effort to look cute to another dude when she doesn't usually do it for me. Ideally, she should reluctantly hook up with another dude, then think, "Shit this guy doesn't match me as well as my BF." Not be spending her free time try to line up some guy!

I got up and just left my house and went walking in no particular direction, listening to some Indian mandala chanting music on my ipod. I started thinking about the future and how things will be different not having a GF. Being free and available to do whatever, anytime. Not having to write phone messages all the time would be nice. But not having someone to talk to and feel comfortable with, someone who understands me well and accepts my quirky nature could be hard to deal.

My head was spiraling for about 3 hours while my GF was calling me non-stop, with me ignoring all calls. Eventually I sent a message telling her that she fucked up with the mail, and I wasn't Kai. She replied that she was at my apartment banging on the door, and if I didn't open the door or pick up the phone, she was gonna go home. I told her I wasn't home anyway and she should fuck off already. She couldn't get it. Then she sent another message saying that the deco mail character she put in the original mail was カイ君 (Kai) from the softbank commercials. That's why she wrote his name in there. She was just trying to be sweet and cute.

I fucked up so hard. On many levels. Seriously. I met her and she was nearly in tears, really angry and just started hitting me, but I held her tight until we both calmed down, in the middle of a busy street while a small crowd gathered.....

We are all good now.

The first time with a Jgirl

The first time I had sex with a Jgirl was 'out there' on so many levels.

-She was much older than me
-She was blond
-She worked in a snack bar (like a hostess)
-I was really nervous
-I accidentally tried to put it in her butt

The thing was that she was visually stunning and when she mentioned that she was too old for me, I didn't really take that as a no. I was pretty convinced that she wanted to hook up anyway and at the same time, I was pretty convinced that I wanted to hook up with her, so eventually we made it happen.

Her body was youthful but her voice was raspy from years of late nights making conversation by shouting above the music, excess alcohol consumption, and cigarettes. When we started getting naked, the surreality of the scene I was in burned into my memory. Here I was, in the countryside of some foreign asian country, laying down an older women that makes money from flirting with men, on top of a futon, in a room with straw mats instead of carpet.

The heat was making the sweat stink and the alcohol had caused me dehydration and a sharp headache to match. On top of this, this women has her eyes shut, isn't looking at me at all, and is making some strange screaming noise.

It was bizarre.

From that first night together began one of the most weird and volatile relationships I've been in. I guess I grew and matured from the experience.

Anyhow, I have a few more days before I'm in Tokyo hitting on blonds. Getting pretty excited.

Confused about age

I was with a friend the other day and we saw two heavily made up girls in gyaru fashion. We started talking to them and realized that they seemed a little young. We asked their age and found out they were 15 years old.

I remember when I was about 17 and I did the same thing in my own country and I found out the girls were 14. We all freaked out and the conversation went weird cause the girls asked our age too.

These days it happens from time to time. Even though I've been here for a while, I still can't judge peoples age at first glance as well as I can judge western peoples age.

Homemade porn

I was taking pics of my GFs awesome ass, then I decided to hit record and take some video. It was great ass. Then I just decided to keep the camera rolling and I set it down facing us while we started fucking. I didn't tell her about it at all, and indeed it is wrong to do something like that, but it was completely done in the moment and I wasn't really thinking at all. I just wanted to watch us fucking.

And I did, just now.

It was a turn on at the beginning but I need to move the camera and zoom in to really enjoy it. It was too bland just sitting on the table. I want to see her from more angles and in different positions. For this I need her permission.

The interesting thing was actually seeing myself. With this paleo diet I have gained muscle weight in my arms and chest, but my back and ribs are pretty damn bony. I was surprised at how greyhound like I look. I need to do some back exercise or just eat more carbs.

I was pissed off that the camera ran out of space and stopped filming just before she hit her climax. I love watching her cum and I missed it.

Nothing going on

I've been blogging about random crap recently, often after I've had a few drinks and in the mood to talk shit. There ain't much going on for me right now in the way of anything. Someone noticed this and gave me sympathy. Not into it. Gonna try and keep things upbeat. Thanks anonymous person for keeping me on my toes.